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It’ll All Be Alright…

18th March 2019

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In general, it would be so simple for me to say that recently everything has been so wonderful. I would be lying if I didn’t say even with the amount of good that has happened, when I reflect, I only think back to one tiny detail that left me feeling pretty down. After this day, a friend reached out and asked if I would meet up with someone and talk to them about my journey so far in Nashville. Without hesitation, I said yes, but on the day of, it took all I had not to bail.

On my way to meet for coffee, I kept thinking to myself what kind of life advice I would even be able to give to this girl. Was I really the right person who should be guiding her or pointing her in any direction? Have I even been that successful? Have I reached any of my goals since moving here? I immediately felt so guilty because I wanted to help her, I just didn’t feel like I was the right person. Once we sat down and started talking, everything changed. Continue reading

Be Courageous, and Be Kind

24th March 2015

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Over the last couple of years, I have had different people tell me that I need to stop fantasizing in a fairy tale and get into the “real world.” I didn’t apologize then and I’m not going to apologize now. One thing that I still don’t understand is how my constant optimism translated to me being stuck in a constant daydream. Over the weekend I went to see “Cinderalla” …for the second time. I love it more every time I watch it. Not only are the clothes perfection and her wedding dress is a dream, but the overall message is something that I value every single day, “be courageous and be kind.”

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True Heroine.

15th January 2015

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Today, I was fortunate to meet someone who has left an impression and showed me the true meaning of optimism and faith. I didn’t receive the initial phone call, but when I found a note on desk for a story idea, I called back and was a little hesitant to the interview I agreed to. I knew very little about this person, I knew she was a drug addict, lost her husband and now her life has forever changed. I wanted to know more, and the interview could have gone a million different ways, but today I felt fortunate I said yes to this story.

She walked in and we went to back room so I could interview her, and the first thing she said to me was that she loved my outfit. Immediately, I could tell she was a kind person and also very nervous, but we once we sat down she opened up and told me her traumatic story. She had a history with drug abuse and when she and her husband experimented with heroin for the first time, she has no recollection of the night. She woke up in a hospital three weeks later to find out that her husband had died, she missed his funeral and their heroin was mixed with lethal amounts of meth, cocaine, rat poisoning and paint thinner. Suddenly, my “problems” felt minuscule and vain.

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