I don’t know anyone who doesn’t enjoy receiving a compliment. For the longest time, it was so difficult for me to just say “thank you.” I always felt like I had to give an excuse instead of just accepting it. As I’m growing older, I have discovered that it means more to hear how smart I am versus how “pretty or cool” I am.
Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve been complimented on my personal style, looks and even my humor. Still, nothing makes me feel more confident or leaves a stronger impression than when I was complimented on my intelligence. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy hearing I look nice and my style is awesome, but being told I am smart means so much more because it has nothing to do with the exterior and it also makes me feel like I am an engaging and interesting person. This also made me reflect on school and growing up as the shyest, insecure book worm, that I have finally outgrown.