Some things in my life have a very specific purpose. These few things, happen to be my favorite things. Today, I instantly grabbed my favorite flannel because its purpose is to wear it over just about any other piece of clothing I own, especially in Fall. It is my favorite, because it is comforting. Also topping my list of favorites are my people. My family.

My family can read me like their favorite book. They know when I am having a good day from a bad day, and even when I think I have a believable poker face, they prove me wrong. Something they are terrible at though, is leaving me alone, but I secretly love this about each of them. No matter what, they are always there to build me up, support me, crowd my space (in the best way) and love me unconditionally. This is what they’re for.

Next on my list of favorites are my friends. I consider them my family too, but they are so special, they deserve their own spot. Somehow, each one of them know when something, positive or negative is happening in my life without even asking me. Their impeccable timing still surprises me. Whether they send a random text, or even call out of the blue to have a lunch or dinner date, they are always there at the most necessary times. They provide me with guidance, make me laugh and most importantly, they listen. This is what they’re for.

Something else making my favorites list, that really has proven to be a game changer over the past several months are new relationships. I’ve experienced the exciting rush of talking to someone new and feeling an exhilarating amount of intrigue and mystery not knowing where any of it is headed. I’ve unfortunately experienced ending something before it even truly started. I’ve experienced the perfect first date that led to disappointing stagnancy later, but with this I’ve learned that there are exceptions, and not all guys are dirty rotten scoundrels. I’ve learned timing is key and sometimes it’s on my side. I’ve learned the hard lesson of breaking up, and finding myself again. I’ve learned what I want, what I don’t want and most importantly, what I deserve. Newer relationships can be tricky, but this is what they’re for.

My life has really managed to keep surprising me. I wouldn’t change anything because even in the worst circumstances, I have at least learned a valuable lesson. Times can be difficult, but after facing the challenges, I have become a better, and even more independent person from them. This is what they’re for.