When I was younger,like most, I could not wait to “grow up” and to become a real “adult.” A few ages in particular felt like milestones. At 13, I was now a teenager and no longer considered a child and it was time I could finally ditch the kiddie table to join the adults at family holidays. At 16, I was taken more seriously in high school, and I had a wonderful “Sweet 16” party filled with awkward dances with all the cute boys I barely spoke to in class. 2 years later, at 18, I graduated and could not wait to escape my small town and begin college. At 21, I felt on top of the world. I was excelling in what felt like everything; friendships/relationships, discovering and pursuing my passions and still managed to have time to still have fun. Now, at 24, everything is contradictory from when I was 13. All I want is for time to slow down.

Life is funny.

Today, I went with my cousin Presley and her best friend to a make-up tutorial. They are going to be starting middle school (7th grade) this time next month. Both girls are so naturally beautiful, and I am truly jealous that neither of them have experienced an awkward stage (if only we all could have been so lucky!) This made me reflect back to my middle school years. I remember wearing make-up for the first week and then I was so over it, so I stopped until the following year and did not start wearing it regularly until high school. I also noticed how younger girls are trying the big fashion trends they see on television and magazines. I love fashion more than the average person, but it is a little frightening how much has changed since I was Presley’s age.

I do not think the make-up is as big of a deal as the clothing style and trends, because she only has minimal eye shadow and mascara which was completely natural looking, but it’s just the thought of these little girls wanting to look more mature than they are. Luckily, Presley has a an awesome family (not to brag, but we rule) and she would never be allowed to wear anything inappropriate for her age. I know there are others out there who are less fortunate. To those especially, but also everyone I just want to tell them to enjoy life. Do not rush anything because we get this once. If may feel like it takes forever to become an adult, but it happens, and then time flies faster than an eyelash bat.

It may be difficult to comprehend, but living in the moment for each moment is so essential and we all lose sight of that when we only focus on one idea, like becoming an adult at 13.

Steal my look today: Jennifer Lopez top: Kohl’s, Bullhead jeans: Pacsun